Cocky and funny is absolutely the best technique for getting women, but there is still more to it. Keeping your composure is also very important. If for any reason you say... trip and fall... then don't overreact! Every human on the face of the planet makes mistakes similar to that, and you make it a lot worse by blowing it out of proportion by freaking out in crazy embarrassed way. Just get back up, laugh a little and say a little "oops" or something then go on like nothing happened. Act like you aren't fazed when you screw up around girls. It gives an overwhelming sense to the girls that you are one confident badass. Confidence is beyond important. You cannot show fear of anything. People have got to look at the world as their own playground, where everybody else is just their string puppets for them to control to get what they want. You've got to emit the sense to whatever girl you are trying to hook up with that you think anything is possible. There is no fear, and thus there is only supreme confidence. Supreme confidence will bring you supreme women.
Ah, one of my favorite topics: COMPOSURE.
I have been thinking a lot about the concept of composure lately. I'm actually writing a section on it in a future book... and I spent some time talking about it in the Los Angeles seminar back in May.
Composure if vital because we humans tend to read very subtle cues from others, then make large judgments about them as people.
For instance, if you're the type that let's little things bother you, then you're probably going to be thought of as not-exactly-masculine.
For instance, let's say that you're out with a girl for coffee, and you come out to find a parking ticket on your car. Some guys I know wouldn't even think about it... they'd just get upset. They'd start whining, ranting and raving... and throwing a tantrum... with no regard for what the woman is thinking of them.
On the other hand, I know guys who would causally pick up the ticket, make a funny comment, and not even miss a beat.
What's the difference?
The guy who keeps his composure at all times is FAR more attractive than the one who doesn't.
Another place that composure plays an important part is when women TEST men. If a woman starts trying to push your buttons, becomes demanding, or starts being dramatic about something, you need to KEEP YOUR COOL.
In fact, some of the guys I know who are THE MOST successful with women actually don't even respond AT ALL to drama or tests from women.
They just continue what they were doing.
Oh the other hand, I know some guys who let this kind of thing take them off balance and upset them (I used to be one of those guys).
If you let things like this upset you, or even get to you a little bit, it's going to be obvious that you
can't control your emotions, and it will make you less attractive all the way around.
Keep your composure. Keep your composure. Keep your composure.
David D.
Double Your Dating Ebook
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