If you want to learn how to successfully approach women, then you're going to need to learn both the "inner" game - which is all about overcoming fear and building confidence - and the "outer" game - which is all about having the SKILLS and "lines" for the different situations you'll find yourself in. And where's the best way to learn to MASTER both? Glad you asked, it's right HERE:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/ApproachingWomen
How to skip all the emails, calling, and "dating" and go straight to the bedroom...
Do two things:
1) Don't focus on "the bedroom." Focus on taking things to the next step... and the next... and the
next.
2) As soon as you meet a woman, treat it like you're going on a date together.
Let me explain.
If you meet a girl you really like, spark some major chemistry, start kissing her, etc., you're
probably going to get some resistance if you look at her and say "OK, let's leave your friends here and go back to my place so I can SHAG you."
That's just a hunch.
But, if you meet her, spark the attraction, start kissing, and then say... "Hey, come with me", and then take her hand and lead her to another part of the club or bar... or take her to the dance floor... or some combination... and then start kissing again... and then stop (two forward, one back)... and then say, "Hey, I'm going to this other bar, come along with me"... and then once
you're there you continue, all the way until closing, when you say, "Hey, let's keep talking...
this is fun. Give me a ride home..." etc., etc., etc....
I think you can see where I'm going with this.
A woman wants to feel that things are developing naturally, not that you are just trying to get her into bed as fast as you can.
If the evening unfolds in a normal, natural way, and you can progress from one level to the next, you'll do very well and go very far.
Why do you lead her to another part of the club, and then take her somewhere else?
Physically leading a woman is VERY powerful, and leaving together/showing up somewhere else
together changes things. When you arrive at the new place, even though you're the same two people who just met, you're now TOGETHER at the new place.
And when you suggest continuing to talk, and her giving you a ride home (or some variation),
it's not like saying "Come shag me." You're making it clear that you want to spend time with her, and it leaves the possibility of ANYTHING happening open.
And as for the girl you met saying "Let's pursue a friendship first", what she was probably REALLY saying is:
"I can't believe that I made out with you after meeting you in a parking lot of a liquor store. I'm not like that. So let's get together sometime on a more casual basis, and if you DO EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID WHEN WE FIRST MET I'LL PROBABLY WIND UP MAKING OUT WITH YOU AGAIN."
Think about it.
We guys always want the one we can't have... and it's a problem. Stay on track improving
yourself, meeting other women, etc. That's the way.
By the way, I realize that the things I teach sound a little bit bizarre. Believe me, it took me
a couple of years of hard work just to figure this stuff out... and a lot of it doesn't exactly make
"logical" sense.
But, all you have to do is start using it to see that it works.
Check it out : http://www.DatingTechniques.com
***SUCCESS STORY***
Just a quick story. Once again you were right on with advice!! I changed my online profile with a
popular dating service and have gotten four emails after the new profile was up only 1 hour!! What did I change? I made it short and funny. Here is the typical response I got: "Your profile really made me laugh. You have a great sense of humor. That's refreshing. I have a hard time finding guys who are truly funny. There's not shortage of guys who THINK they're funny, but it's nice to see some of you are still out there. I'm attaching my profile. I'm 37, never married (yeah I know.. means there must be something wrong) and like to laugh and have a good time. If you don't respond, I'll just have to go back to collecting cats and being the neighborhood spinster. ha ha. I hope to hear from you." As you would say Dave, "Love it"!
You are the man!!! E. Chicago
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Nice!
Yes, this stuff works online just as well as in person... sometimes even better.
You might remember the one newsletter several months ago where the guy took some of the stuff from my Advanced Series and copied it word-for-word to create an online personal ad, and then wound up getting all kinds of emails from women saying "Come over to my house and have sex with me... you're turning me on." LOL...
When you're Cocky & Funny online, it really triggers a FUN, witty, sassy part of women... and
they love it.
By the way, if you're reading this right now and you want results like this online, go and read THIS right now:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/ApproachingWomen
She's probably hanging in there, hoping that SOME kind of feelings will develop for you... but
it's not working.
Look, when a woman says:
"I only like you as a friend"
...or...
"I've been hurt, so I want to take this slow"
...or...
"I like you so much, I don't want to lose you as a friend"
...or any of the million variations of these things, it USUALLY means that you're not doing the
things it takes to create ATTRACTION.
She doesn't FEEL IT for you.
And if she doesn't FEEL IT, then there ARE NO shortcuts, my man.
Stop being such a "nice" guy, and start doing the things you're learning from me to spark some
CHEMISTRY!
I have a few brainstorms for you... to help you avoid buying drinks at the pub:
1) Keep your Friday and Saturday nights free. Go out with your friends on those nights, and just
avoid dates. I have many friends that follow this rule, and it works very well for them.
2) Make a lot of friends at the pubs, bars, etc. that are in your area. Invite the bar tenders,
doormen, etc. to parties that you hear about... bring them gifts... and just generally figure out
how to get in their good graces. In other words, become the guy that NEVER pays for drinks in the first place, because they're GIVEN to you.
3) Lead. Don't do things you don't want to do. Only go to places YOU want to go to. Women will
respect you and what you want if you just lead.
The FEELINGS that you're giving her will FAR MORE than make up for any lack of experience on your part.
I think a lot of guys have had times in their lives when they were successful with women... but
for whatever reason they have lost their old "mojo." Maybe it was a marriage that went bad...
maybe a girlfriend that eventually turned them into a Wuss Bag... whatever.
I get a lot of emails from guys who USED to be good with women, but have been out of practice for so long that they might as well be starting over.
If you fit in this category, or you're just getting started and you want to get off on the right foot, then I recommend you check out my eBook "Double Your Dating", and then my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.
No kidding, this stuff has taken me several years to learn, test, refine, and explain clearly.
If you want the best material available for meeting and dating women, this is it.
My downloadable online eBook comes with three free bonus booklets, and it's the foundation for
everything I teach in these newsletters. Get it here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/ebook
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