Recommendations on clever lines for the gym girl...

***SUCCESS STORY*** (Applying the lessons from this book)

"Dave,

I gotta tell you man, your book was a God send...

I've got about 3 girls in my sites already. One co-worker, one my sister's room mate, and one a hotty at the gym. The first two are in my hip pocket, no problem. The hotty at the gym however is driving me insane, man. I keep thinking about her over and over and it's killing me! I haven't even said a word to her but I always catch her looking at me out of the corner of my eye. I feel like a wuss for not just approaching her but sometimes I get choked up on what to say dude! Anyways, I've got some ideas and I'm going to take your friends for a month advice (meet as many friends as possible) advice to heart.

Basically I wanted to say thanks for your insight Dave and any recommendations on clever lines for the gym girl? :)

J."

>MY COMMENTS: Glad you enjoyed the book. As far as the girl at the gym...

For most of us guys, it doesn't happen very often that we catch a gym hottie checking us out. Most of us are either too dense to see it, or too average to have it happen very often, or both.

Here's the deal: If a woman is giving you positive eye contact, you need to either 1) Go do something about it IMMEDIATELY... or 2) Be so confident and skillful that you don't need to do anything about it because you know beyond the shadow of a doubt that it's in the bag.

Something tells me you fall into category #1 and should have gone over and started talking to her instantly. The longer you wait, the more of a wuss you look like, as a general rule. You have about 5 seconds from initial positive eye contact to calm yourself and mosey over to say hello. So you'd better get to it.