Teasing Women

Useful distinction to keep in mind about teasing women.

As you know, I think that it's a great idea to tease women. It shows them that you're not afraid of them, and it levels the playing field very quickly. It also suggests that you have the kind of relationship that makes it OK to tease her. A great thing all the way around.

But like every idea or technique, there are a few exceptions and things to keep in mind...

Here are a couple of semi-common situations that you need to keep your eye out for, and what to do about them:

1) Watch for women who don't have very sharp senses of humor. Every once in awhile, you'll run across a woman who just doesn't get it. Sarcasm just plain doesn't make sense to some people (I know... how is this possible, right?... lol). Some women will take everything you say literally... it's almost like they're humor-impaired.

My favorite way to deal with the Humor Impaired is to wait for those moments when they say "that was rude" or they look at you with that confused look that people who don't get funny comments get... you know the one where they're trying to smile like they think it's funny, but you know they just don't get it?... and they say "It was a joke" or "I'm teasing you."

I know, kind of lame, huh? But sometimes you just have to spell it out. Just keep teasing, and keep on saying "It was a joke" and "I was teasing." This says, in effect "I'm having fun, and I'm going to keep on with it, even if I have to explain it to you every time."

2) Pay attention, because if a woman is sending you semi-nude pictures online, etc. you might just want to skip the small talk and say "hey, I have an idea- why don't we go back to my hotel room so I can show you my new stamp collection."

If a woman is telegraphing "I'm ready, take me" then you probably just want to bypass the formalities and move on to more, shall we say, physical expressions of your teasing personality.

3) If a woman gets uptight when you first tease her, accuse her of being no fun, and a cold fish.

I'm serious about this one. Let's say you make a funny joke about her, and she gives you that "I don't like that you made fun of me" look. You now have about two different basic choices.

You can 1) Back down and do the "Oh, I'm sorry... I didn't mean to upset you" thing, or 2) You can say "What, you don't have a sense of humor?" or "Are you trying to tell me that you can't take a little joke?"

The reason I do this is because I want to find out as SOON AS POSSIBLE if I'm dealing with someone who is just plain no fun at all.

The fact is that there are a lot of women (and men too) who are just plain boring to be around. They're too uptight, and they just don't get it.

And yes, even some beautiful women fall into this category. You'd be better off calling it a night
early on if you discover that the woman you're in front of fits into this category... No amount of
beauty can make up for a boring personality (Unless, of course, we're talking about Christy Turlington. I probably wouldn't care in that case).

So, in short... yes, it is possible to tease a girl too much. But if this happens, you're probably either:
1) Crossing the line of INSULTING instead of teasing...
or 2) Dealing with a woman who has no sense of humor, in which case you're better off saying "thank you and good night" as soon as possible... and saving yourself from the most boring evening of your life.

Remember: The objective of teasing is to INCREASE THE ATTRACTION that she's feeling for you.

...by the way... if you're reading this right now, and you haven't downloaded your copy of eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to do that now. You'll learn several different ways of teasing women that will make them feel very attracted to you. As a matter of fact, when you visit my website, you'll be able to read a great sample scenario from my personal experience that shows a different way of teasing...

Just go to:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/ebook/

...and read about it.