How to approach women and to say something

In the book "Double Your Dating" the author address this very issue of approach women and to say something. Look, here's the deal:

We guys all want to know how to "approach women in a way that seems natural and friendly, gets her attention, and doesn't make her think that we're coming on to her..." etc. Well, get over it. If you're in a BAR, and walk over and start talking to a WOMAN, she's going to know what
you're up to. Even if you're not interested in her, she's going to think you are. And there's nothing you can do to change that. So what's the answer? Simple...

Don't worry about "excluding yourself from the rest of the guys"... just worry about whether or not she's still talking to you!

My perspective is that you can start out a conversation with a nice compliment, or a throw-away question like "what are you drinking?"... and then, as soon as the conversation starts, GO INTO COCKY AND FUNNY MODE AND START TEASING HER LIKE THERE'S NO TOMORROW. Use your body language, voice tone, and humor to get her to wonder if you're interested in her.

It's not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it. I get a ton of emails with "What's a good pick up line?" included somewhere within. It's not WHAT, it's HOW.

You can have the best lines in the world, but if you come across as a weak, scared person NOTHING will work for you. On the other hand, if you have confident, calm body language, then almost ANYTHING will be OK. Just walk over and say "Hi... you look like someone I want
to meet." If you say it with the right body language and voice tone, and you talk to several women, you'll get some positive responses. Make sense?